Busy day!

Tired Andrew after a full day

This morning, Andrew had a 2-hour session with Kathyrn, his ABA therapist. On the surface, it looks like they are just playing. But when you learn a little bit, you can see that Kathryn is engaging him in what Andrew wants to do, but she steers him into new angles, new ideas, and new types of spontaneous behavior. Towards the end, he was playing an interactive game on her iPad. He wasn't quite getting the concept of drag-and-drop, but I'm sure he'll get it soon enough.

Sara had "the day off". She had been pulling double duty last week while I attended my company technical conference in California. She earned a day at the spa. This made for fun time management. Pay it no mind that I still got a lot of work done!

Later today, Andrew had his first speech therapy session followed by occupational therapy. When his speech therapist came out to give me her report, Andrew was upset. It appeared like he didn't want to stop playing. It was a bit of a blur. He developed an initial rapport with his speech therapist and was introduced to several new sensational things with his occupational therapist. I have more to learn about this stuff.

He didn't get home and able to nap until around 3:00pm. Suffice it say, he was cranky by then, and fought me carrying him to his crib, but it didn't take long before he was out.

Here is what is so amazing. He is getting all types of help, but doesn't even know it. To him, it's all play. At dinner time, he was running around, and when we would say certain words, Andrew repeated one of them while pointing his index finger at his mouth. We quickly deduced that this was the gesture his speech therapist used. It is clear that all these things are sinking in and giving him what he needs.

In all this hub bub, there is something I never realized until Sara and I chatted with a member of our Sunday school class who happens to be an ABA therapist. Andrew might very well come out ahead of his peers. I was praying that he would keep his head above water and "catch up". I never realized this might be possible.

Small Victories

This week has been a whirlwind of activity for us.  Greg has been out-of-town all week and we've had a full schedule of therapy appointments and evaluations.

Andrew's therapy team is finally taking shape.  We added two members to the team on Wednesday as he was evaluated for (and recommended to pursue) Speech Therapy and Occupational Therapy.  He is, as we knew, quite delayed in speech - both in receptive and communicative language.  They will work with him to improve both his speech and his tolerance to a greater variety of foods.  The Speech Therapist did comment that he is great at repeating things, which is the basis of building language.  The Occupational Therapist was not overly concerned as his gross motor skills are nearly where they need to be, but his fine motor skills are at the level of a 21-22 month old.  Both therapists stated that he was easy to work with and very compliant, reassuring me that this would be of great benefit to him and us in his therapy.

All in all it was a rocky day for me.  Even though we knew he was delayed because of his autism, it's never easy to hear it.  But it did my mommy heart some good to be told over and over what a delightful boy he is and that he is going to be fun to work with because of his unique qualities (very laid back and easy going).

Thursday I went to pick him up from his preschool program to hear from his teacher that he'd had a bad day.  She said that he was "very sensitive".  It was not good to hear that, but I am thankful that this is not the norm for him, that he mostly has good days at school and even has been participating in class activities.

I was pleased to meet the "final" member of the team this morning, the ABA Therapist who will actually be doing his therapy three days a week for two hours each session.  She was very impressed with how quickly Andrew picks things up and how easy he was to work with.  They played with toys and books while she was here.  She would point out objects in the books and identify emotions that were displayed on the character's faces (happy, sad, etc).  We were shocked and pleased to hear Andrew spontaneously (not repeating her) point out a character as "happy" and also point out and say "moon" spontaneously.  It may seem small, but it was huge for me.  Andrew does a lot of repeating, but we RARELY hear ANY spontaneous language and he's never pointed to something in a book before an named it.

So, we are celebrating the small victories today, with every hope and prayer that the steps forward, though small, will become a consistent part of our life.  I know that there will be more small victories to celebrate and I look forward to looking for them daily.